Even if the breakup wasn’t too traumatic for you, you’re still tearing yourself away from the other person with whom you had a lot in common.
And sometimes you want to add a new partner to this bleeding wound as quickly as possible, so that he or she can act as a healing plantain. This can work, but it can also lead to bad consequences.
When we enter into a relationship out of desperation and pain, we risk not noticing the red flags or simply choosing someone unsuitable.
Ask yourself why you want a relationship. If the goal is to cope with pain, anger, loneliness, then perhaps it’s worth waiting. If you want to go on dates to experience all the emotions associated with them again, to build something new, this is a sign that you are ready.
